It's not you it's my crazy ex...

October 23, 2010
So I've been on a couple of dates now with this new guy.. and it seems apparent that he's still haunted by his own ex.. she seems to have been on our dates with us as he's mentioned her a few times now.

Despite this he seems very nice and sweet - but I have the feeling in the pit of my stomach that it won't be long until the immortal lines 'you're nice but I'm just not looking for a relationship' are uttered... call me cynical or paranoid if you will but never the less it's there.

We had our third date yesterday and have yet to arrange another... here's hoping I'm wrong.

Ladies night tonight so I'm getting glammed up for a night out of dancing, gossip and cocktails. Means that I'll miss Xfactor and Strictly but it will be worth it. Let's just hope I don't do any drunk texting..

nwis x
 

The ghost of boyfriends' past

October 20, 2010
I've had a realisation that it's nearly been a year since my first date with X... he's still texting me now and again asking for us to meet up and see each other.. I'm managing to resist so far. I'm still too angry with him to entertain the idea of seeing him.

As it's now the run up to Christmas we're also having to take on some additional staff at work.. which is harmless enough. Only problem being that additional staff includes an ex boyfriend of mine - who I will have to work with. Uncomfo...
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Intolerance and Identity

October 16, 2010
I've lost my patience with most people on facebook this week... I looked down my news feed and the majority of people's status updates were about their girlfriends, boyfriends, husbands and babies...

Now I'm all for being madly in love with someone but if you can't even update a facebook status without talking about them there is a serious problem.. Surely when you're in a relationship you shouldn't lose your own identity and thoughts?

My intolerance resulted in the following status from myse...
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About Me


I'm a twenty something woman, living in the UK. I have a job, I'm relatively good looking, I can cook and I like to think I have a good sense of humour... and yet - I'm single. Don't get me wrong - I love being single and having my freedom - but sometimes I'm amazed by the things I say and do both in day to day life and in my encounters with men.. and when I say amazed I don't mean in a good way.

About Him


I'm a twenty something guy, living in the USA. I am a medical student, I'm pretty attractive (although my friends often tell me there are other attractive men out there, apparently), I'm fun and have a great sense of humour, I can cook better than almost every girl I've met, and I have a decent fashion sense - for a guy. However, I'm single. I've been told this may have something to do with my lack of patience, a certain egocentric streak, my often acerbic humour, or a penchant for getting drunk at inappropriate times or to an inappropriate degree when the occasion is acceptable. Perhaps all of the above.

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